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Posted: Wed 14:09, 21 Aug 2013 Post subject: jordan What Does Our Body Language Communicate |
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People pick up on what we really think whether we know it [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] or not. One way we convey our thoughts is in our body language.
The body can not lie. Lie detector tests are based on this fact. Even though we're using our conscious mind, it can lie and we often do. Our body always registers the [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] fact that we are lying.
The secrets of body language mean that we may try to put on a false front to cover up our real feelings, but our body is incapable of lying. Behavior specialists suggest that only 7 % of [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] communication is the words we speak.
The rest is made up of 38 % [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] tonality and 55 % body language. When our words aren't congruent with our thoughts it comes across in our tonality and our body language.
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An expert in body language will notice other things, such as blink rate going up or nervous mannerisms. I just simply get the feeling that the person isn't congruent, and there's something amiss. It's just a general feeling, but it's one I trust.
It is a scientific fact that people's gestures give away their true intentions. Yet most of us don't know how to read body language and don't realize how our own physical movements speak to others.
However, while we may not be able to interpret the intentions of others consciously, unconsciously we pick up everything. This often leads us to feel uneasy with certain people.
Thoughts even convey themselves into letters, e-mails and texts. Whatever your intention when you write any of the above it comes across to the person who receives the message.
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One day I was talking to a fellow therapist and she told me that she had sent an email to a colleague whom she was less than happy with. Her predominant thought as she wrote the email was, "I don't want to offend her."
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