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Having a 'Goal Buddy' to support you in achieving your dreams, encourage you when times get tough and help you find new inspiration, is a fantastic way to keep yourself motivated and focused on your goals.
But what sort of person makes a great Goal Buddy?
1 - Someone who believes in you. We often look to share our goals with those close to us, but sometimes this can be a mistake. The people who love us don't always believe in us and they also have a strong incentive to protect us and often that protection comes in the form of dire warnings about not taking risks or stepping outside your or their comfort zones. They mean well but often they will hold you back.
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2 - Someone who can listen well. The purpose of being a Goal Buddy is to be a sounding board for ideas and questions that arise for you in the course of working towards your plans. As the old saying goes, they have two ears and one mouth and they should be used in that proportion.
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The most inspiring words you will ever hear from your Goal Buddy may well be - Let's call John, he knows all about that.
So if you are looking to identify someone to support you on the road to your goals, before you pick up the phone, measure them against this 5 point checklist and see if they are cut out to be the perfect Goal Buddy.
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